Several recent studies and books have focused on the science of skill acquisition. (đđŹđŞđđ â đ˘đŻ đ˘đŁđŞđđŞđľđş đľđ° đąđŚđłđ§đ°đłđŽ đ˘ đ´đąđŚđ¤đŞđ§đŞđ¤ đľđ˘đ´đŹ đ°đł đ˘đ¤đľđŞđˇđŞđľđş đľđ° đ˘ đŠđŞđ¨đŠ đđŚđˇđŚđ đ°đ§ đąđłđ°đ§đŞđ¤đŞđŚđŻđ¤đş) As it turns out, we are born with few natural talents and skills. Excellence is borne not of any innate ability but practice. In other words, you can be good at whatever you want.
If itâs possible for anyone to acquire any skill, why donât more people do it? Why donât they improve or get good at things theyâve always wanted, like cooking, sports, or playing the piano?
The first answer, of course, is that itâs difficult, much harder than people realize, and requires incredible discipline. It just takes time and effort, which most people donât have or arenât willing to give.
Ed Sheeran shares this concept and demonstrates that not all artists are born with natural talent by playing an early recording of himself when he was younger trying to sing:
https://youtu.be/flkjMuaKYQU
âđđ°, đľđŠđŞđ´ đŞđ´ đŽđş đľđŠđŞđŻđ¨. đđŠđŚđŻ đąđŚđ°đąđđŚ đ¨đ°âŚ âđ°đŠ, đşđ°đśâđłđŚ đ´đ° đľđ˘đđŚđŻđľđŚđĽ. đ đ°đś đ¸đŚđłđŚ đŁđ°đłđŻ đ¸đŞđľđŠ đŻđ˘đľđśđłđ˘đ đľđ˘đđŚđŻđľ. đâđŽ đđŞđŹđŚâŚ đŽđŽđŽ, đŻđ°. đđŠđŚđŻ đąđŚđ°đąđđŚ đ´đ˘đş, đ˘đłđľđŞđ´đľđ´ đ˘đłđŚ đŁđ°đłđŻ đ¸đŞđľđŠ đľđ˘đđŚđŻđľ. đ đ°đśâđłđŚ đŻđ°đľ. đ đ°đś đŠđ˘đˇđŚ đľđ° đłđŚđ˘đđđş đđŚđ˘đłđŻ đ˘đŻđĽ đłđŚđ˘đđđş đąđłđ˘đ¤đľđŞđ¤đŚ.â - Ed Sheeran
So, if you're bad at golf or snowboarding â and you know you are â take a chance and let go of your fear of embarrassment. Itâs possible to acquire and hone skills to perfection (or nearâperfection) through practice and dedication.
Kobe Bryant can also teach us about how he improved his basketball skills. After each game, he would call people and ask for feedback on how his game went. He'd try to understand what he did wrong and what he could do to improve the next game.
"You can also learn a lot by asking yourself questions, watching others or reading a book. The benefit of asking questions is that it will encourage you to think about what you can do to improve and what makes others so good at what they do." - Kobe Bryant.
In this interview, Kobe Bryant offers vital advice on a growth mindset and his systematic approach to improving his game.
I genuinely appreciate his words when he tells us how we must take embarrassment less personally in the extended scheme of our ultimate final goal. Here's what he said:
"You gotta get over yourself. It's not about you, man. Like, OK. You feel embarrassed. You're not that important, like, get over yourself. You're worried about how people may perceive you and, like, you're walking around, and it's embarrassing because you shot five air balls. Get over yourself. (Instead,) Ask yourself, 'why did those air balls happen?'" - Kobe Bryant
You can watch the interview here: https://youtu.be/VSceuiPBpxY
The bottom line is you mustn't be embarrassed about how bad your English may be. Instead, consider that you must be first đŁđ˘đĽ đ˘đľ something to improve and become đ¨đ°đ°đĽ đ˘đľ it.
If you are an independent learner, please download my Guide to Self-Study and ensure you're doing *active* learning activities to help you grow.